7 stages of the
descent at menopause
Based on the story of Inanna, and her descent through 7 gates to the Underworld, where she is transformed. She is looked upon with the eye of death by her sister Erishkegal, then is revived with the water and earth of life by her assistant and friend Ninshubar. In my experience, what seems like the end is only the beginning of a new phase of life. This is my personal version, and an exercise I give to women in the Heroine's Journey at Mid-Life class.
I share this with you so you may have hope!
7 stages of descent (what do you give up?)
I gave up my will to volunteer all my free time (and
postponing my own work)
I gave up multitasking
- unable to do it anymore without breaking something, brain is in a pea-soup
fog.
My defensive armour is too heavy, especially around my
shoulders. It must come off! (acupuncture,
physiotherapy, osteopath helped, seeing a counsellor helped peel off the
scales)
I have lost my ability to mother and take care of everyone
else - I am exhausted and in bed at 8:30
pm. Even the plants are too demanding. Get rid of them!
My libido has disappeared and the desire for sex has gone underground
When I broke my leg skiing, I was forced to learn how to ask for help. I
feel my muscles are mush, liquefied, I am losing wrist strength and muscle mass.
7 gifts I reclaim (what learnings do you return with?)
I surrender and let go. I have no vision for the future,
only questions.
I realize my limits. I need rest and downtime, less striving
and pushing myself so hard.
I find my voice, the power to say no and the power to choose
what is right for me
I claim the power to stand my ground and stay rooted in my
truth
My sexuality blossoms, I allow, I receive, I enjoy pleasure
I release the rescuer self in me, and that has freed up my
energy for my own work.
I allow time for creative loafing, creativity in all its
forms, evolving and moving, staying curious.
If you want to read more about the journey through menopause, see The Tao of Turning Fifty, What Every Woman in Her Forties needs to Know (linked on my website).
namaste,
jennifer
Soulcollage card: East, Rebirth,
Reawakening
